Thursday, February 5, 2009

Pimping vs being in love

for the most part guys fall into either two lifestyles, being a pimp or being in a relationship. now i would personally say that both are pretty hard to be good at and both have their own respective perks and downfalls.Now with being a pimp you always have to be on your toes, your game has to be on point and you have to maintain a certain status.at the very least i would say hooking up with atleast one new girl every month would give you a pimp attitude and so on.you would be pretty happy with yourself and life would more then likley be good in your perspective. at your lowest the worst feeling you would probally have is boredom and boredom kills... so iv heard. thats pretty much the highs and lows of being a pimp in a nutshell.now on the other hand you can pursue the lady of your choice and maybe engage in a relationship with her. this can be hard especially if your picky and you only want one certain girl and you arent willing to settle. in doing this that girl gets put on a pedastool making it even harder to obtain her because your either trying to hard and it shows or you just completely melt down and any sence of confidence you have with other girls just flys out the window. now if you actually manage to get her its the best feeling in the world you can have the worst job withh minimum wage and still feel pretty high off your love. even if your not with her just talking on the phone to her and being close can fill a certain void and still feel pretty good. now the downfall with this is if it all ends, as most of us now that doesnt feel very good at all. a girl (or guy) can make you feel like your at the end of your wits. your days are long, sads songs make sence and nothing is really fun. all in all sadness.In my honest opinion either lifestyle is a good one. for me personally i play both sides of the field and from my own life experience i would have to say that chasing the girl who you're really interested in is more rewarding. but at the same time if it doesnt go your way you'll be set up for a world of misery and pain or regret. at my age i would say that its alot easier and less stressful to just hook up with random girls and have fun. its lets you focus on whats important whatver that may be to you whether its school or work.anyways i just thought id share that with everyone decided to way out the pros and cons, if you have any additions feel free to add em PEACE